Whether you’ve planned a romantic dinner for two, or are scouring the shelves at Target for a last-minute gift, the girl of your dreams may actually turn into a nightmare.
We spoke to Albert Wakin, Professor of Psychology at Sacred Heart University in Fairfield, Connecticut and researcher of a type of distorted love called limerence. The addictive part of this is very powerful because it is an addiction to a person, not a substance, ”Wakin notes.
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Wakin notes that individuals diagnosed as limerent think about the object of their love up to 98% of the time. “You never have to worry that the liquor is going to reject her, or the liquor is going to see other people.
I learned, through reading “Why He Disappeared”, that because of the fact that he did not commit to me, I really didn't want him back.
I realized that I needed to find the man who would love me unconditionally for who I am, not for who he wanted me to be.
– Nobody dies of a broken heart: you fall, you get up, you dust off, you move on. Someone once told me that you attract what you are ready for.
Maybe subconsciously this is all I have ever been ready for? Or, have I been missing something to prevent the long term commitment I am seeking?