Is it any wonder that confident women are hard to come by? The average fashion magazine tells women to act like a servant, as if dating were a labor-intensive, blue-collar-job application: “Can you serve a cold beer in trashy lingerie? He has to see that you call your own shots and that you don't need input from anyone about how to put your socks on.Do you leave razor-sharp creases in his shirts like employee-of-the-month at the Jolly Roger motel? This says, “I am secure.” The biggest attraction killer is neediness and insecurity.
She explains that being nice to your man won’t make him more devoted. Very early on, her fiancé tried to give her his two cents on how she should dress.The DSM-5 defines social anxiety as the “persistent fear of one or more situations in which the person is exposed to possible scrutiny by others and fears that he or she may do something or act in a way that will be humiliating or embarrassing.” Those who are shy, if not socially anxious, tend to experience social situations in a more reserved, tense and uncomfortable manner, especially when meeting new people.It may take longer to open up and share, which can affect one’s ability to form close relationships.Even children learn to love their parent(s) overtime and through various experiences.We don’t come into this world loving anyone, we grow to love someone and to cherish who they are.